The Smiling Celebrant

So, who is this woman offering to don wellies or wetsuit one minute and a posh frock the next? I am a born romantic with an aversion to cliche – I also smile a lot!
 
I have had the honour of being married to two wonderful men (one, happily, I’m still married to)!  I understand the emotions, sensitivity, tact, and joy that are involved in planning a wedding, whether first time or fourth (look, no one’s counting). I understand how important it is for both families to get the ceremony right. I am a passionate believer in equality and treating others with kindness and compassion.
 
Whatever your situation, race, sexuality or disability it would be my privilege to work with you. So, don’t be shy, give me a call or send me an email and we can start the process of giving you both a wedding to smile about!

FAQ

Yes, it’s all about collaboration! We talk things through, come up with a plan and then the script is only finalised when you are happy with it.

The law in England at the moment does not legally recognise humanist weddings (but watch this space, we’re working on it!). Most couples choose to formalise their marriage at a Register Office some time before their wedding day.

One of the joys of choosing a humanist wedding is it can take place anywhere you would like. Whether its in a castle or an allotment, your favourite pub or your back garden, all that matters is that you marry somewhere that’s right for you.

Only if you want to! When you write your own vows they feel more personal. If you don’t feel confident writing your own, don’t worry I will write some for you, using your own words where possible.

I am happy to rebook with you at no extra cost should your wedding be postponned due to Covid 19.

Who doesn’t love a dog in a bow? My cocker spaniel Digby was at my wedding, he added so much and got way more attention than I did. I was so proud that he didn’t cock his leg during the ceremony but be warned, it does happen! You just need to check with your venue and be prepared in case of accidents.

Whenever possible I will travel to your ceremony either by public transport, in a fully electric car or even on my bicycle!

Pricing Guide

Starts from £1050 for weddings in 2025.

  • Your unique script
  • A planning meeting
  • A rehearsal
  • Delivery of the ceremony
  • A presentation script

I give an ‘all in’ quote, so this will vary based on location, distance, and whether any accommodation is required- just get in touch and I’ll do the maths.

I don’t charge anything extra for the first 50 miles of travel.

 
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CONTACT

fi@fitillard.com 07957 560731

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